A Snowy, Candlelit Wedding at The Lageret in Stoughton, Wisconsin | Renée & Paul

A Love Story, a Sunset Cruise, & a Surprise Proposal

Renée & Paul met like many other modern couples—on a dating app. They enjoyed a first date and felt an easy connection that Renée compared to “a great Friday fish fry at your favorite hometown spot,” but their lives became busy, and they were unable to schedule another date. A few months later, Renée decided to give their spark another try and asked Paul out on a sunset cruise. He said yes, and they spent the night out on Lake Mendota with plenty of time to talk and get to know each other more, floating away from the distractions and responsibilities of everyday life.

That date was just the first of many adventures that followed over the next few years. They moved in together, traveled abroad, played countless rounds of golf, and enjoyed meals at many of Wisconsin’s best supper clubs. While golfing on Marco Island, Florida, Paul planned a proposal on the final hole. He got down on one knee and asked Renée to marry him, and she said yes!

Seasonal colors and their love of supper clubs helped shape the theme of Renée & Paul’s snowy wedding day at The Lageret in Stoughton, Wisconsin. They spent the months leading up to their big day fine-tuning all of the details and finding their dream vendor team who understood their vision and brought it to life. With planning and coordination by Copper Feather Events, their celebration blended personal traditions, romantic floral design, and the warm industrial character of this historic wedding venue just outside Madison.

Details, Getting Ready, & First Look

Intentionality stayed at the forefront for every wedding planning decision. They used design elements and custom pieces throughout the day that told their story, beginning with invitations from Minted, engagement rings from Chalmers Jewelers, and wedding bands from William Thomas Jewelers. Paul also wore cufflinks with an etched monogram of the first letters of their first names, wedding date, and a message, “I will love you forever.”

a detail shot showing a wedding save-the-date, invitation, perfume bottles, jewelry,  and florals photographed on a wood floor
custom-engraved cufflinks, with one saying "R&P 11.29.25" and the other says "I will love you forever"

Their color palette leaned cool and classic, with the bride in a white dress from Premiere Couture  and the groom in a sharp black suit from Indochino. Bridesmaids wore pale, floor-length dresses from Birdy Grey in blush, champagne, or taupe, and groomsmen matched Paul, except for the ties: Paul wore white, and the rest wore black.

Renée’s dream dress was strapless, with a structured bodice and scooped sweetheart neckline. The A-line gown featured exposed boning on the corset and was made from luxurious satin that cascaded into a full skirt with a cathedral-length train. She accessorized with hoop earrings, a sparkling necklace, a tennis bracelet, and a tulle veil for the ceremony.

a bride stands by a large mirror in The Lageret's bridal suite, surrounded by her bridesmaids as they adjust the skirt on her dress
a groom poses beside two other men for a casual photo. They are all dressed in formal wear and preparing for a wedding day ahead

Before walking down the aisle, Renée and Paul shared a special first look surrounded by their closest family and friends. Paul stood facing the wall, waiting for Renée to tap him on the shoulder before turning around to see her in her wedding gown for the first time. With loved ones seated nearby to witness the moment, the couple turned a traditionally private wedding-day experience into a heartfelt memory they could share with the people who mean the most to them.

a bride taps her groom on the shoulder, prompting him to turn around for a first look before their wedding ceremony
family and a wedding party sit and watch a bride and groom have a first look before their ceremony at The Lageret

An Intimate Wedding Ceremony with Dramatic Florals

Renée & Paul tied the knot in the ceremony space on the venue’s second level, framed by natural light, glowing candles, and a statement floral backdrop from The Lageret’s in-house florist, Flora Designs by Jamae.

Rather than a traditional, fully connected arch, the installation featured two lush floral columns of varying heights, with greenery and blooms extending upward and outward to create an airy, sculptural silhouette. Deep burgundy amaryllis, blush and coral roses, white hydrangeas, delicate orchids, and abundant greenery created a romantic contrast against the venue’s exposed brick walls and added deeper pops of color to the day’s palette. The asymmetrical, deconstructed floral arch gave the ceremony a garden-inspired feel while allowing the venue’s historic architecture to remain part of the design.

The couple included family in their ceremony, with nieces and nephews participating, and Paul’s cousin officiating. Renée also walked down the aisle to music from a live string quartet, adding an extra layer of romance.

a string quartet plays during a wedding ceremony at The Lageret
a asymmetrical statement floral backdrop by Flora Designs by Jamae sits against the cream city brick walls at The Lageret. The piece includes dramatic burgundy amaryllis, lush pink garden roses, ivory hydrangeas, delicate white orchids, and abundant greenery. Candlelight at the bottom adds a warm to the romantic, intimate atmosphere
a detail photo showing the bottom of a dramatic floral arch, with blush, red, burgundy, white blooms, and abundant greenery lit with artfully arranged candles
a bride and groom exchange vows atan intimate winter wedding in Stoughton, Wisconsin
a bride and groom share a first kiss at a luxurious indoor ceremony at The Lageret
a bride and groom share a first kiss at a luxurious indoor ceremony at The Lageret surrounded by florals, candlelight, and the love of their friends and family

Soft Glamour & Richly Colored Wedding Florals

Also arranged by Flora Designs by Jamae, Renée and her bridesmaids held sculptural, lush bouquets featuring red peonies, garden roses, white anemones, orchids, burgundy calla lilies, pink pepperberries, and mixed greenery.

Lotus Artistry Studio provided hair and makeup services for the day. Renée’s makeup was glamorous without overpowering her natural beauty. Her face was bronzed and contoured for picture-perfect moments, with emphasis on her eyelashes and sculpted brows. Her lips and cheeks were naturally blushed to add some extra warmth on a chilly November day.

Hollywood waves for the bride and bridesmaids gave a timeless, final touch to the looks. Styles were long and wavy, ranging from loose curls to half updos. The soft, polished hairstyles beautifully complemented the wedding party’s classic attire and the romantic floral palette.

a bridal portrait taken in front of an symmetrical floral arch. The bride is wearing a strapless dress from Premiere Couture and holding a bouquet from Flora Designs by Jamae
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a bride and groom share a kiss as their wedding party surrounds them and cheers
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a portrait of a groom wearing a black suit from Indochino. He is posed in front of an asymmetrical flower arch with greenery

A Warm & Romantic Wedding Reception at The Lageret

Warm candlelight, lush florals, and thoughtful personal touches transformed The Lageret’s historic industrial setting into an inviting wedding reception filled with character. Exposed brick walls, wooden beams, and twinkling string lights provided a beautiful backdrop for a celebration that balanced timeless elegance with Renée and Paul’s love of Wisconsin supper club traditions. From custom illustrations and nostalgic menu selections to richly colored floral arrangements and intimate table settings, every detail reflected the couple’s personalities and created a welcoming atmosphere for family and friends.

Personalized Wedding Signage & Supper Club Details

A one-of-a-kind wedding deserved one-of-a-kind signage. The couple worked with a Bushel + a Peck to create a hand-lettered linen welcome sign, a paper drink sign with illustrations, a seating chart, table numbers, and place cards, and more.

Their love of Wisconsin supper clubs became a defining element of the reception design. A custom, two-piece seating chart featured hand-drawn illustrations of some of their favorite local establishments, with corresponding artwork carried through to the table numbers. Classic relish trays served as centerpieces, bringing a nostalgic and distinctly Wisconsin touch to the tables. These personalized details created a meaningful connection to the couple’s story while giving guests a glimpse into one of their favorite traditions.

custom, hand-drawn wedding welcome signage from a Bushel + a Peck hangs from a staircase surrounded by lush florals and greenery at The Lageret
a hand-drawn, custom bar sign by a Bushel + a Peck hangs in a reception space at The Lageret. The sign says "libations' and includes custom drinks for the bride, groom, and their kiddle cocktail named after their dog along with illustrations
a handwritten acrylic sign that says "please take a card & leave your mark" sits alongside custom playing cards, florals, and candles. The cards serve as a modern take on a guestbook
a custom, hand-drawn seating chart by a Bushel + a Peck that reads, "Join the club! Find your seat at some of our favorite Wisconsin Supper Clubs." Each table includes an illustration by a supper club, followed the the names of each guest seated there. The illustrations correspond to the custom table numbers
Illustrated supper club table number displayed beside a tiered appetizer tray and reception place setting

Romantic Wedding Tablescapes, Dining & Desserts

Chandeliers, string lights, table lamps, and candles played a big role in framing the warm, welcoming reception atmosphere. In addition to the pieces provided by The Lageret, rentals and décor from Event Essentials and florals from Flora Designs by Jamae made every table feel cohesive inside the upstairs dining space.

Candlelit wedding reception at The Lageret featuring long wooden tables, round tables, exposed brick walls, and overhead string lights
Personalized wedding place card and reception stationery beside a gold table lamp, wine glass, and appetizer display
Round wedding reception tables with blush linens, floral centerpieces, hanging greenery, and warm string lights against exposed brick walls
Wedding dessert display with assorted cookies and a custom acrylic dessert sign on a rustic wooden table

The supper club theme also carried through in a plated meal from Blue Plate Catering. The couple and their guests enjoyed appetizers and fresh bread at each table, followed by their choice of entrée, alongside delicious offerings from the bar.

Instead of a traditional wedding cake, Renée & Paul offered bite-size cookies from Main Street Kitchen and nostalgic ice-cream cocktails—a Grasshopper and a Brandy Alexander. The familiar flavors were another playful way to celebrate their love of Wisconsin supper clubs, giving guests a dessert experience that felt distinctly their own.

Dancing & Live Music

As dinner came to a close, the celebration moved to The Lageret’s ground-floor lobby, where the open layout provided the perfect setting for dancing and live entertainment. Bluewater Kings Band kept the energy going as guests gathered on the dance floor. Renée and Paul kicked off the festivities with a choreographed first dance, complete with romantic lifts, creating a memorable moment before inviting their loved ones to join the celebration.

Paul lifting Renée into the air during their wedding dance beneath a disco ball at The Lageret
Renée and Paul dancing together as wedding guests gather around the dance floor
Renée and Paul lifted on chairs during a lively wedding reception dance, surrounded by celebrating guests
Bluewater Kings Band performing live at the wedding reception with a vocalist, saxophonist, trumpeter, and keyboardist

An Unexpected Snowfall & Unforgettable Wedding Portraits

While the couple carefully planned the details of their wedding day, Mother Nature had one final surprise in store. When asked about the most memorable moment of their wedding day, Renée wrote,

“A winter storm rolled in just in time for our wedding, bringing the first snowfall of the season. It felt uniquely Wisconsin, as it was unexpected, beautiful, and a little magical. Watching the snow fall as we celebrated made the day feel even more special and intimate, and it’s a moment we’ll always remember as something completely our own.”

Their photographer, Nicole Hansen Photography, was right alongside the couple, capturing every moment.

Renée and Paul kissing in falling snow beneath an evergreen-covered brick archway outside The Lageret
Renée wearing a dark fur-style coat over her wedding gown beside Paul in a black suit, surrounded by snow-covered greenery and warm lights
Close-up wedding portrait of Renée and Paul leaning together beneath warm string lights, with Renée wearing a white veil
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Renée and Paul posing beside a brown leather armchair against rustic wooden doors, with a lush burgundy, pink, and white bridal bouquet
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The night ended with more drinks, dancing, and celebrating. Renée wore a second dress for the later part of the reception, a halter dress with silver sequins. The sparkling second look was a fun finishing touch to a celebration filled with heartfelt traditions, personal details, and a little unexpected winter magic.

Renée and Paul kissing during the reception, with Renée wearing a sparkling beaded second-look dress and Paul in a white dress shirt
Renée and Paul posing together in their evening reception attire beneath a glowing “Make it Great” neon sign and greenery wall

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